Have you ever imagined having a threesome? If you are reading this, you might be curious. Maybe you don't know where to find someone to have this experience with. Maybe you already know a person to have a threesome with you and your partner, but you don't know how to make it unforgettable. As an experienced wooplus swinger, I have had many times of threesomes, foursomes, and even group sexual parties. I think I can say something in regards to threesome. You see, threesome might sound interesting, but many couples are still worried about it. Therefore, I have some suggestions for you to help you have the optimal experience.
Open communication. This might sound obvious, right? That is true, but many people still find it pretty hard to carry out, especially when it comes to sexual subjects. As a matter of fact, open communication can help us to get clear with our preferences, desires, fears and dislikes. For threesome partners, open communication is must. If you are a couple and you are looking for a third unicorn, I suggest you to take this as the first principle. Open communication makes sure no one is in the dark and everything is on the table to discuss. Open communication matters during the whole process of threesome hookup.
Make a list to get a clear hold of the third you want. Many couples want to have a threesome dating, but when they are asked what type of third they want, they often find themselves speechless. They have no clue. The first step of finding the third is to find out what you want. Write it down with pen and paper. Write down the appearance and characteristics of the third you dream of. In this way, you will know very clearly of what kind of person you want and you can take the person into your life accordingly. For an example, this is the kind of person I want: She must be attractive. In other word, my husband and I are both attracted to her. She must be loving and respectful. She needs to know who are we and of course, she must like us. She must be hot. She will respect my marriage and have an open heart.
Discuss boundaries and have a grand discussion about the whole thing. The biggest mistake a swinger couple can make is that they find a third and jump into the bed without any discussion. I once made a such mistake and I learned from it very soon. All three persons must be open and honest with each other. You need to get to know the boundaries and preferences about each other. There are many sexual and relationship boundaries when a couple is involved. By setting boundaries, you can have a safe and pleasant threesome experience. It will be a lot funnier too. The most vital thing is to clear with the "Yes" and "No".