How to have a great one night hookup with someone you are not familiar with? Many people might frown at this issue. Actually, it is not hard to have a nice meet me chat with someone who may even be a stranger to you. Just read the following tips and I think you will get the hang of it.
First and foremost, be safe. Safety always comes first no matter you are meeting a person on hookup apps, or in real life bars and clubs. Being told when we were little that stranger equals danger. That rule still applies at present. As the old saying goes, the world is full of danger and uncertainties. We cannot be too careful to protect ourselves. Having fun is important, but being safe is even more vital. Meet in public places. Wearing condoms. Trust your instinct if you feel uncomfortable.
Second, say definite “yes” to things you want. These days, people are getting used to play games, especially girls. For many girls, they hold this idea in their mind that being reserved equals being valuable. It might be somewhat true in a relationship, but in one night meet me chat, this principle doesn’t apply at all. Hookups requires efficiency, simple and easy. The reason so many people prefer hookups over relationships is that the frontier one is more drama-free and costless. Two people being straight-forward with what they want and what they are going to do is the main factor that attract most people. In this case, if you are still thinking about playing games, then you might lose your chance of getting laid with the right person. Therefore, if you meet someone whom you are interested in having a hookup with, just go with it. Give him a definite “yes” and enjoy yourself to the fullest.
Third, say definite “no” to things you don’t like. I know for many people, rejection is not something born in their nature. They get used to say yes to every requirement that brought up to them. They always play the good cops in their life. Actually, even for me, I have difficulties in rejecting people. However, if you are going to tinder hookup with someone and you don’t know how to say no, you might as well just stay at home and watch Netflix, because it won’t be fun at all. Just imagine if you are not into BDSM or certain kind of sexual position while your partner strongly suggests it, what would you do? You probably would just compromise and do things that make you uncomfortable. Will you have fun in that? Of course not. Then what is the point? There is no need to make compromise with people whom you might just be going to spend one night with. This might be the first and also the last time you will meet. Why bother? If you don’t like it, just say no. If he/she can’t handle it, then we can just move on to another person. Just that simple.